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Advice on masturbating married men and guys who shave ‘down there.’

I’ve been married to my husband for 7 years. A couple of weeks ago I caught him masturbating. I was shocked because we have lots of sex. Usually 2-3 times per week. We haven’t talk about it yet. We’re both kind of embarrassed. Do all guys masturbate when they are married or in a relationship?
Jennifer

Hi Jennifer,

I don’t think there’s anything to worry about here.  Having lots of sex keeps your sex drive high.  It’s perfectly normal for men and women to masturbate even when they’re in a relationship; even when they’re getting plenty of sex.

Hey, I do it. Even though I love having sex with my boyfriend sometimes I masturbate because it’s easier.  It’s quicker.  All I have to do is turn on the vibrator and I can cum within a few minutes.  I don’t have to worry about contraception.  I don’t have to worry about sleeping in the wet spot.  Of course I prefer my boyfriend to any sex toy, but sometimes you just want to get off quickly.

I would start worrying if he stops having sex with you and continues masturbating. 

I asked my boyfriend his opinion on this and he said, “All guys who are breathing masturbate.  It doesn’t matter if you’re in a relationship or not.”  So there you go.

Good luck,
Anjelika

I know shaving for me is becoming more in style. I tried this out for the first time a few days ago. After shaving myself, I got a horrible rash and it itches like crazy. I tried some lotion to help. It did at first then but then it made the itching worse. How do women do this? Is there anything I should be doing?

Max

Hi Max,

From your e-mail I’m going to guess that you me the “hair down there” and not the hair on your face.

Ugh, I hate shaving my pubs.  The few times I’ve tried it I got a few nasty ingrown hairs.  There are few things more painful than an ingrown hair on your vagina lips!

Now I just get a Brazilian wax from Svetlana. It last several weeks, and I love feeling smooth down there.

I know it’s very Hollywood, but a celeb I once dated got the hair on his balls lazared off.  It took six sessions to get it all, but it damn it felt good once it was done.  And it looked so tidy!  It was a permanent solution and in his case it worked rather well.

The best thing that works for the itch down there is a antiseptic nappy/diaper rash cream.  I know it’s for babies, but it works really well if you’re itchy after a shave.

Now in case you’re actually talking about the hair on your face I would suggest changing the blades regularly and use a good quality shaving gel.  My boyfriend recommends anything from the King of Shavesbrand.

Hope that helps.

Cheers,
Anjelika

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